Thursday, November 14, 2019
4 ways to get better at reclaiming ownership of your time
4 ways to get better at reclaiming ownership of your time 4 ways to get better at reclaiming ownership of your time Ever since Rep. Maxine Waters proudly declared she was reclaiming her time, Iâve adopted it as a mantra of sorts.Sleeping in an extra five minutes? Reclaiming my time.Continuing to speak when someone attempts to interrupt me? Reclaiming my time.Follow Ladders on Flipboard!Follow Laddersâ magazines on Flipboard covering Happiness, Productivity, Job Satisfaction, Neuroscience, and more!Taking my sweet time sipping my grande iced vanilla coffee while I work at Starbucks?Reclaiming my time (and also my space after two Black men were unnecessarily arrested at the popular coffee chain last year).But taking ownership of your time goes much deeper than that.In a recent Mindbodygreen interview, Lauren Ash, founder of Black Girl in Om, a holistic wellness platform for women of color, shared:âI set myself up for success by identifying at the top of every day what is a priority today. What did I not get to yesterday? It really allows for ease. So I donât just open up my inbox an d respond to people that are trying to demand my time, but Iâm really taking ownership over my time for me.âWhile I have a pretty consistent morning routine that consists of prayer, journaling, and meditation, I am guilty of checking my inbox as soon as I sit down at my desk and power up my laptop. And I immediately get overwhelmed by all of the inquiries, requests, newsletter subscriptions and âreply-allâ threads where you end up spending more time than youâd like trying to figure out exactly whatâs going on and how/why youâre involved.Point is, as soon as I open Gmail, my time is not my own. And if youâre anything like most people, youâre not alone. So in an effort to reclaim ownership of my time, Iâm sharing four life hacks to help you do just that.Ask yourself: Whoâs owning this time?Sometimes we can catch ourselves scrolling through Instagram mindlessly because weâre not asking ourselves an important question: Who is owning this time?If the answer is In stagram, a Netflix show you donât actually care too much about, or something else, then thereâs room for some re-prioritization with your precious free time.Sometimes, the answer will have to be âmy bossâ or âmy childrenâ or âmy taxes.âBut try to find more ways to make that answer you- maybe that means taking a walk, meditation, or doing something that brings you joy. But donât be too hard on yourself, either- sometimes it feels good to watch 5 episodes of The O.C. in a row, and thatâs OK, too.Transform your to-do listIn the article, Ash talked about bullet journaling as a way to re-think her to-do list. If youâre juggling a lot of responsibilities (say, your day job, your side-hustle, your personal brand and/or running a household), it can help to break up your to-do list into categories. Perhaps a bullet journal is more your speed, or you prefer a more high-tech way of organizing your thoughts and tasks, such as Evernote or ToDoist.I, personally, like to set up my to-do list for the day the evening before. This helps me actually own my sleeping time.The point is to dispose of all the randomness running around in your head before bedtime so you can sleep soundly and without worrying about the 50 million things you need to do the next day. Your brain will thank you for it.Put your phone on DNDIâve always been a fan of Appleâs âDo Not Disturbâ feature. I set mine 30 minutes before my desired bedtime. Recently, I kicked this up a notch by changing the setting to black out my screen so I donât see notifications during (DND).If you really want to block out the world, you can put your phone on airplane mode, but I like to leave it on DND in case of emergency. This hack also works for blocks of time when you need to concentrate on a task.Take this a step further and disable notifications that you donât actually need. Youâll be surprised how much less you check your phone when it isnât pinging to get your attentio n every few minutes.Plus, it forces you to be intentional about which apps you want to check rather than absentmindedly reaching for the phone every time a banner pops up on your screen. I bet your friendâs âlol so realâ comment on your latest tweet can wait while you focus on another priority.Take a nap, seriouslyTodayâs society will have you thinking you have to spend every waking moment being productive, that your self-worth is measured in how much you can produce. But as Tricia Hersey, founder of The Nap Ministry, says, ârest is a form of resistance.âListen up: You are NOT the Energizer Bunny, so donât let anyone fool you into believing you can keep going and going and going.As self-proclaimed Black feminist, lesbian, poet, mother, and warrior Audre Lorde once said: âCaring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.âSo, have a nap. I promise the work and to-do list will be waiting for you when you wake up.Take ownership of your time and notice what you need. Promise: Even if you just reclaim five minutes a day, youâll be better for it.This article originally appeared on Shine- a daily self-care meditation app that feels like a pep talk in your pocket. Join 3 million people who start their weekdays with Shineâs motivational message. Plus: Get support with audio challenges developed by self-care experts. After using Shine, 96% of people saw a decrease in anxiety depression.You might also enjoy⦠New neuroscience reveals 4 rituals that will make you happy Strangers know your social class in the first seven words you say, study finds 10 lessons from Benjamin Franklinâs daily schedule that will double your productivity The worst mistakes you can make in an interview, according to 12 CEOs 10 habits of mentally strong people
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